Wednesday, December 29, 2010

5th Anniversary! Christmas! (and the House!)

Christmas here was a rather more subdued affair than it usually is. Seth and I really missed being up in Ironwood or PA with the rest of our families though at least we got to celebrate with his family a couple weeks ago. Still, it just wasn't quite the same. I'm looking forward to next year when we actually have a real house and get get a real tree instead of using the fake one we have now. Hey, we'll even have a fireplace mantle for hanging stockings on! Kat enjoyed the fake tree though and he looked pretty cute wearing a red bow too, even if he did crawl out of it by the time he finished exploring the presents.





Christmas morning we drove up to visit Seth's mom. It was good to see her and chat for a while, and we even got to see one of Seth's uncles he never gets to see when they came to pick her up to go visit the rest of their family. We came home, opened presents, and then came another episode of Marianne vs. Kitchen. Unfortunately the kitchen won in the rack of lamb rib challenge though my cranberry sauce wasn't bad if I do say so myself. Thankfully, Seth saved the day by beating the kitchen into submission by whipping up some eatable pasta. I think this was one of the weirdest Christmases we've ever had.

This year was also our 5th Anniversary! Talk about time flying. It feels like it's been so much longer and yet only a few days at the same time. Buying the house put a damper on the anniversary plans I'd been making since July, though I'll put those in a pocket and maybe bust them out next year if it's still viable. Buying the house put a damper on a lot of spending this year, but it was still fun. We went out to dinner at a really nice restaurant. We'd gone there for my birthday and even had a card for a free appetizer. :) And their bruschetta are to die for. It was seriously a great night and a much needed break from the house-buying stress we've had over the holidays.

And stress there has been. The appraisal on the house worked out, but the same lack of service and basic understanding on how this process should work from the Bank of America has given us more problems. The seller is a developer and bought our house out of foreclosure and then redid everything. They're apparently trying to do something tricky (but legal!) in order only pay the (high) transfer tax that gets slapped on people buying and selling houses in Maryland once. This means (as far as I understand it) that their title on the property is not clear yet though it would become clear when we go to the settlement table and in all one transaction they pay the transfer tax for buying and selling the house and the title immediately comes to us. This, however, has confused BoA and they've denied our loan application because of it. Seth, our agent, and the seller's agent practically stormed their offices to convince them not to close the loan application. If they close it, the nice 4.375% rate we still have locked in for another two weeks or something would disappear. What's the point of a rate lock if they won't even give us that time to fix whatever problems they have with our application? The loan officer even said that Seth and I were the most qualified buyers that they've seen in years. They seem pretty intent on driving our business away, however, and though they agreed to keep the application open and we're working on trying to get them to understand the title issue, we're not terribly hopeful.

Contrast that experience with what happened when Seth called up Suntrust and explained the situation with the the title. The loan officer there had no problem working with us. He couldn't give us the awesome rate we have there and we'll be at a 4.9ish% instead even after discount points (ie. the loan officer paying a point for us out of his commission) and paying a point to bring it down. But that loan officer put in a request for an appraiser to come out to look at the house yesterday and guess who's going there today? Yep. He even said we can probably close on the house next week.

So unless BoA has an unexpected bout of competency and decent customer service we'll be going with the higher (though still pretty low) loan rate and Suntrust's service.

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Yay Phone

I have my phone again. Thanks go to Alex who got confused by it beeping from a low battery somewhere in his rental car cushions... wasn't that a close one.

Monday, December 20, 2010

Stuff and Things and House Headaches

Well first off, I lost my phone this weekend so if you've tried or are going to try calling me... well I hope I find it at home instead of some random person at the theater or something.

Seth and Alex and I went to see Tron Legacy on Saturday, which was a lot of fun. I hadn't watched the original Tron until earlier this year (Seth nearly fainted when he found that out) and in spite of its age, I loved it. Tron Legacy lived up to it and had some seriously [i]incredible[/i] style. The 3D was great and while I wouldn't exactly go wearing one of the skin tight body suits in public myself, the costumes and EL/CG work that went into them were pretty sweet. The soundtrack by Daft Punk was really good too.

Meanwhile, things with the house are moving along (sort of). We're currently languishing in underwriting for our loan. Here's what happened. When we applied for the loan the loan officer handling it said "Oh! Your credit is so good that we don't need to do an appraisal of the house!" To which Seth was all, "Um, can we please do one anyways?" Whereupon the loan offer said, "Well no, if we did it, it would just confuse the underwriters." "Well ok..."

However, a week later and with our appraisal contingency deadline approaching rapidly we hear back from the underwriters... since the property had been bought out of foreclosure (I think?) by the developers that we're buying the house from only aa few months before it came on the market, there were all the indicators of a common flipping and bank fraud scheme. "Developers" go in and buy a property, claim they renovated it, and immediately sell it to a straw buyer for way more than it's worth. This type of flipping scheme and shoddy underwriting practices that didn't catch it is one of the reasons the housing market went boom. Funny enough, the underwriters are a bit more attentive now. Long story short, they need the appraisal. And our contingency comes... and goes before they get it done. Now this was fairly concerning for us since if it didn't appraise well our loan could be denied and we wouldn't have any contingency left to get out of the contract and we could lose our 5K deposit. The bank took foreeeever to get the appraisal done and our realtors have been working hard to work out contract extensions with the seller.

Happily, things seem like they're starting to smooth out again. We got the appraisal in today and it came back saying the house is worth $10K more than we're paying for it. Our extensions are pushing back our signing day to January 7, however, so I guess that blows up our plan for an Empty House Party there on New Years Eve. It was going to be BYOF(urniture)!

Monday, December 6, 2010

Floorplan!

So here's the product of several hours of fiddling around with a floorplan software for kicks and giggles... it's not quite done yet as you can see but, hey. It lets me play with furniture dimensions. Most of the main rooms like the living room, bedrooms, and family room in the basement I measured but some of the others are guestimated.

Friday, December 3, 2010

House Updates

Well the house buying process is progressing along nicely. I did the house inspection the other day and it came back with a remarkably awesome clean bill of health in spite of being about 55 years old. The only problems we have boil down to: (1) two windows that need new caulking, (2) a couple outlets that need the third prong grounding stuff put in and we could use an extra electrical outlet in the family room, (3) gutters that need cleaning, and (4) the back screen door needs a new air piston thingamajig. So overall is dang good shape. Even the stuff we can improve on doesn't need to be done right away. The windows should be a couple days work I can do myself and the electrical stuff is apparently an easy fix and the majority of the cost of that is actually bringing in an electrician.

So other than that, I'm plotting the decorating! I'm trying to take it from a logical perspective and prioritize my purchases. The furniture we have is nice and will do, but it's just not enough to fill the house. The main floor, for example, is going to be empty except for the table in the dining area for a while. The chaise- our only real seating furniture due to size constraints of the apartment- will go in the family room with the tv. But we can even make do with that for a while.

I'm going to start in the bedroom though. We've got a bit of an overlap between moving in there and moving out of the apartment and I want to do things like buy an area rug for the bedroom before moving the bed up there. When we start seriously decorating the living room and family rooms rugs will be the first purchases there as well. The master bedroom is 11x13 (thankfully big enough to fit our king sized bed XD) so I'm looking at rugs in th 8x10 range. As it turns out, they're pretty expensive. Overstock is pretty much my go-to place for furniture and large housey things. We've had great experiences with them in the past, get 5% back from purchases with their rewards program and frequent 7% off everything coupons in the mail from them. This is what I'm looking at...

http://www.overstock.com/Home-Garden/Lyndhurst-Light-Greyish-Blue-Floral-Motif-Area-Rug-79-x-109/2241799/product.html
This one has good reviews and I love the steel blue color though the listed size is apparently wrong. it's 7'9 x 9'10 instead of 10'9. Which is smaller than ideal, but would still work and the rug is $250 before discounts, $223 after.

http://www.overstock.com/Home-Garden/Lyndhurst-Cream-Oriental-Wool-Rug-9-x-12/5034076/product.html
This has only one review (5 stars though) and is a bit more neutral in colors with brown and gold and ivories. It's also a lot bigger at 9 x 12, which would fill the 11x 13 room beautifully. It is, however, $350 before discounts, $308 after.

A question for those who've bought area rugs before... if this thing is going to be going under a bed and probably a few other miscellaneous pieces of furniture, is it going to need a pad beneath it? I can't imagine it would move much beneath the furniture the way it would out in the open. Pads aren't that expensive, but they are Just One More Thing.

The other thing I want to start thinking about is the family room. I've wanted, for quite a while now, a real couch. A sink-into-and-take-a-nap-it's-so-comfortable couch. Which definitely doesn't come cheap. I want something like this and with this great of reviews but with maybe half the price tag >.> http://www.overstock.com/Home-Garden/Bentley-Premium-Italian-Leather-Sectional-Sofa/4685798/customer-reviews.html